May 22, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 22, 2015

I regret not having the courage to tell you. cheating isnt right, but ive loved you for years now and cant get you out of my mind. just text me once, please. let me know if you think of me too or if you just hate me. it will ease my mind either way.

May 21, 2015

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SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 21, 2015

I regret cheating on my best friend and breaking off a relationship with him, only to then go on and have a baby with someone who didn't treat me well and who I could never love in the same way.

I broke both of our hearts and I regret it every day. I'll always love you and I'm happy that you didn't suffer forever because of my actions and that you're happy now with someone else.

May 20, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 20, 2015

I regret not staying out of my marriage and going through with my divorce 4 years ago. My marriage is still abusive though not physical anymore and I feel trapped. I regret not giving my boys a good example of what a relationship can be. 37/F

May 19, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 19, 2015

I regret not understanding... I wish I could understand why you seem to make a move on me out of the blue, only to then pretend it never happened. Every once in a while you seemed to be trying to flirt with me, with your smiles grins and I would look in my rear view mirror as I drove away and see you watching me as if you wanted to say something but just missed me. But then anytime I tried to talk to you, you'd seem so guarded and reserved and even panicy. I tried so desperately to communicate with you in anyway possible and to have you relax a bit and realize I was just a girl who really liked you and wanted to get to know you on a more personal level. You ignored my invitations completely. What kind of game was that? Why did you show interest in me to only throw out such humiliating turn downs towards my returns of interest towards you? Why was the idea of even talking to me like anyone else so difficult for you? why did you seem afraid? I didn't ever give you any reason to have any fear...if anything I put myself to you more than I ever have to anyone in my life...I put my heart on the line to you...only to have you treat me like I was a tool for you to stroke your own ego and talk about me behind my back about how much I seemed to like you. I know my methods were unusual compared to the norm of women, but I didn't think they were worthy of such rejection and humiliation. The only thing I can pull out of that experience with you is to never put my heart out there for anyone ever again...never to concider allowing myself to be vulnerable to another guy again...and certainly to not waste my time concidering having sex outside the relationship with my son's father. I may as well just stay where I am with this relationship...at least I get laid when I need some kind of closness and know where I stand with him. It may not be the kind of love I would have liked to have and share in my life but at least it is more positive than the offerings you were obviously prepared to lend me. I can't help but wonder if it was because you fell in love with that other woman who was ready willing and capable of throwing herself at you the first chance she got with her blue velvet camel toe track suit and chattering mouth running a mile a minute to throw you off kilter just enough to set you up to take over the work of being her wild child's new daddy-o. She was a cutie pie...I can't blame you there... but as for the wild curling haired mother? Seriously? Her over me? Just cause I didn't wedge my pants up into my crotch so you knew I had one didn't mean I don't...anyway. I hope she is worth it for you. I would have done anything to be in your arms before...but after your flatteries endlessly turned to degrading insults of selfish ego stroking suggestions, I wish I could turn back the clock and take it all back. I have never been hurt so much by a guy whom I never even had foreplay with never mind sex. I can't believe you did that time after time...but what I find even more mysterious and embarrassing is that I actualy let you do it for as long as you did. Why in god's name did I ever open myself to you in the first place I'll never know. I should have known a teacher would be up to nothing but head games and failure marks towards me. Why I would even keep up the hope in my heart that a guy like you would ever see me as anything more than what you did is beyond me. I am such a fool... and what I think hurt the most is that in a split second of you telling me it isn't so....my heart would drop at the turn of that dime. I still look for you when I am out in public places...I still secretly wish for you to simply come by me one day and just say "hey..how are you doing?" I guess the dreams in my head are just too high to ever become real...I just I am just not good enough for anything more out of this life. Such is life I suppose.
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May 18, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 18, 2015

I regret holding onto an ex for so long -- thinking he was going to change the lifestyle he was living.

May 17, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 17, 2015

I regret not telling my parents that I love to write poetry. Mainly because I know they are going to be the most critical readers and listeners.

May 16, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 16, 2015

I regret allowing my ex to control everything in my life. I had many people point out the problem, but being young and naive, I didn't listen. However, my parents stepped in and made the decision for me. I am happier than ever now and living my life on my own terms.

May 15, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 15, 2015

I regret staying in an abusive relationship for two years. I regret not seeking help to get out of the situation. I regret losing a part of myself to the abuse.

May 14, 2015

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: May 14, 2015

My biggest regret is never allowing myself to follow my dream and passion and joining my high school dance team...I was too busy worried what people would think because I'm a boy.