July 24, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 24, 2014

I have two major regrets:

1. When I was 15 I told a girl I loved her so I could have sex. She was a sweet, beautiful person that I used. The most selfish act any man can do.

2. I regret bullying people physically and with words when I was in middle school.

I pray for forgiveness and that God would bless the people I hurt. I also have spent much of my life trying to help people like those I hurt decades ago. I wish I could find those people I hurt and tell them I am sorry and somehow help them. When we are young we can be selfish and hurtful.

July 23, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 23, 2014

I regret settling for you when it is clear that I am capable of so so so much more. I regret letting you hold me back. I regret the vows by which I promised live, and I regret that I won't allow myself to break them.

July 22, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 22, 2014

I regret every day I have lived since you died. I regret the times I clung to you as I loved you so much that I think you used alcohol to escape. I regret letting you go, I thought I was being brave and letting you spread your wings. I now spend my life crying as I now feel I letyou go because I couldn't cope with the drinking,, how selfish was that. I let you down when you needed help. What if you drank as I was a shy quiet thing and you needed a more social person, what if I made your life too small. Mostly I regret that I can't change anything and will spend the rest of my life without you. The guilt is overwhelming. Oh Nigel please forgive me as I can't forgive me.

July 21, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 21. 2014

I regret loving a man who cannot love me back. Who used me and lied to me and told me I was perfect. I regret believing him and making myself a new future. I regret the betrayal of my husband, the man who has stood by me for 30 years and loves me unconditionally. The man who does so much for me and our 5 children. I regret meeting someone who made me feel 'that spark' .That spark that I can never have with my husband. I regret finding out we don't have 'chemistry', that I love him as a friend and not a lover. I regret being 48 ... too late for me to start again.

July 20, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 20, 2014

I regret nothing.

I would not be who am I today without my past flaws that have changed and shaped me into who I am today, which makes me even more grateful and thankful than ever.

I'm constantly growing spiritually, especially with my life partner. No one and nothing can or will stand in the way of this.

This is sometimes hated by others and/or causes jealousy.
They can't understand a true, supporting love. They don't have it so they don't want to see it.

"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned."
Buddha

July 19, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 19, 2014

I regret living my life for everyone but me. I regret not getting my education sooner. I regret squandering my $100K inheritance on foolish purchases. I regret eating my way up to 300 pounds. I regret letting fear rule my life.

July 18, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 18, 2014

To J., I regret being with you still after you cheated on me for the last 8 years with over 15 - 20 women. I want to have the strength to leave you. I deserve a better man than you. I have given you 34 years of my life. You are a liar and a cheat and even though you say you are doing everything to make up for it now I don't believe you. I am still unknowns to you, finding out more on how much more of a piece of crap you really are. I don't trust you because you have lied to me and to our counselors as well as sworn on your daughter's life and the grandbabies lives. I'm scared to leave. You ruined our lives and I hate you for that. If I leave you, our lives will and have changed forever. So will our relationship with our daughter and granddaughters. You so frivolously went on cheating on dating married people sites. you say you only slept with one woman, I believe there were more. You piece of shit - you didn't even think of the diseases you could have given me. I hate you for putting me through going to my dr. and getting tested for god knows what diseases and for having the whole dr's office know that you cheated on me. I hate you for your lies. I hate you that you hide to people what you've done and I hope your family finds out what a rotten human you really are. I want to find a good man. An honest man. I hate spending one more second with you. I can only hope that I leave your sorry ass and can some day find a good man to love and who will love me back. You mister, lost the only true person that loved you. Sometimes when you go too far, you can't go back. I hope it was all worth it to you and I hope I can get the courage to leave and find someone who really loves me.

July 17, 2014

An important message from the Secret Regrets founder

Hello All,
As you know, Secret Regrets has done a lot of amazing things, and has helped countless people. Our blog has had more than 2 million views, and more than 50,000 regrets posted since it began in 2007. So many lives have been changed -- and even saved -- because of this project. 
So I have a favor to ask. If reading any of the Secret Regrets we've posted has helped you in any way, please consider buying one of the bestselling Secret Regrets books so we can help fund our efforts to help thousands of other people by continuing with the Secret Regrets project. Now would be a good time since Amazon recently lowered the price of the Secret Regrets books! Or you can download either ebook on your  Kindle, or Nook.
Thanks so much for your continued support! It's because of loyal fans like you that we can continue to help people all over the world live secret-free and regret-free!!!
Kevin Hansen
Secret Regrets founder

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 17, 2014

I regret having children. I'm not saying I don't love them, of course I do. but having them has complicated my life greatly. I lost my soul mate because he didn't want to be a father to another man's children. I'm angry with myself, and resent the kids even though it's my fault not there's.
23/F

July 16, 2014

SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: July 16, 2014

I regretting making the JUMP, I was scared of heights anyway. I should have taken the beating instead of the 47ft jump. Who did I think I was? Superman? A bird??? I suppose it could have been worse. At least I am still here. Walking, of mind. I landed on my feet, though what use that was in heels. 47ft or a beating by the teen my age? What would you take? I really regret the one I did. With an SCI, and serious head injury it sucks. Sometimes, I think death woulda been easier for all. But then I think to the most beautiful girl in he world, my daughter. I need to be here for her.